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RAJA Lovers Retreat
- Oct 17 - 24 '26
- group max 42
- from 2300 euro
- in English
What is the Essence of Desire, of Pleasure? Is it possible to use them as a stepping stone to Consciousness? Or is all a source of suffering? Desire and pleasure are part of the journey of life. They motivate our actions, decisions, and relationships. We get some momentary fulfilments from them and some frustrations too! The frustrations lead to more desire for pleasurable moments. It goes on and on. We are prisoners of this loop, and this generates a lot of suffering.
Is there a way out of the loop which doesn’t condemn pleasure and desire?
Tantra has developed methods teaching us to be desireless in desire.
How is that possible?
Entering the emptiness of the Heart is the essential Step!
The Raja Lovers Retreat explores this step through a Ritual involving the embrace, the caresses, and the kisses between two lovers. All the intimate gestures of the lovers are a means to fuse the body with intense life energy. While channelling this energy to the Heart, we provoke a meeting beyond ego, personality, restricted beliefs, and dreams. A true meeting happens by blending refined physical sensations with high awareness, discipline, and devotion during the Ritual.
The preparation for the Ritual during the retreat invites the lovers to move out of mechanical sex and mind projections and expectations. It is a profound enquiry into the body’s rhythms, breath, mind and the emptiness of the Heart. The retreat supports lovers in awakening their energies and bodies to refined sensitivity and vitality to activate their potential for love and consciousness.
What does Pema say about the Ritual?
“There are a few aspects of lovemaking from the Raja Ritual. The first one consists of realising that all the postures we take in sexual intercourse are a yoga of creation with specific patterns of energies. During the Ritual, you tap into these patterns to extract forces uplifting you into the Heart.
The second aspect concerns the biological aspect of the energy present during intercourse. If not used for creating a child, this aspect can be used for another type of creation. In the Ritual, you combine the energy patterns mentioned above with the biological element of creation to generate inner and outer forms of creation. It is a mysterious process that shifts intercourse into a new dimension.
Another aspect is about Desire, one of the powerful energies fuelling the Raja Ritual. There is a deep understanding of desire: whatever we desire, we want to be one with. It means desire is also a key to oneness. In the Ritual, we tap into desire to come to a point of unity where we become desireless at the peak of desire. It is a powerful transformation, bringing about a state of wonder, freedom and peace beyond words…”
For information about the program you can visit the website or send an e-mail:
Incluso
Boutique room
Light, spacious and comfortable rooms with incredible supersized mattresses, en-suite bathroom with shower, toilet, basin and vegan body care products. Decorated with heart and soul.
Healthy food
Our restaurant with sea-view veranda serves delicious vegetarian food with fresh ingredients from mostly local farmers. All meals, drinks and afternoon snack/smoothie are included. Our kitchen team is happy to adjust to specific dietary needs.
Wellness
Recharge in the large sea-view pool surrounded by bamboo sun beds, lounge chairs and umbrellas. Cleanse on a deep level in the Turkish bath, Finnish or infrared sauna. Treat yourself to an additional massage and enjoy the walking trails and panoramic meditation spots uphill.
Program:
The retreat is structured with whole day and night practices. It starts at 7 am and finishes around midnight. This intensive rhythm alternates with breaks for meals, swimming, and walking in nature.
The main areas of exploration:
- Learning & practising the Raja Ritual
- Practicing the Yoga of Creation
- Entering the Great Desire
- Centering in the emptiness of the Heart
- Reviving Wonder
- Opening to the forces of Creation
This retreat is devoted to lovemaking. However, it doesn’t mean you will move into intercourse in the group room. All the intimate practices are held in your private bedroom with your lover.
Intense whole day program
With breathing, meditation, presence and dance
Incredible surroundings and facilities
Retreat hosts

Pema Gitama
Since 1999, Pema has been reviving the ancient tantric principles of the Kaula, based on practices that raise awareness of our actions and relations in our daily life.
She offers these insights to others in different ways:
- The Kaula Heart of All, a family, which together evolves and creates a life rooted in love and awareness;
- WildTantra, where she offers retreats based on ancient rituals, initiations, and methods transmuting life energy into the highest form of consciousness and love;
- Pema Walk in Beauty, books where Pema transmits her Tantric experiences through stories which reveal Tantric wisdom from various lineages.
Her unique way of transmitting Tantra carries within it a great deal of wildness, love, sharpness and an unpredictable sense of humour, all of which add freshness to the intensive retreats which she leads around the globe.

Retreat into nature
Situated in a small private valley with stunning views over the nearby azure blue Mediterranean Sea and surrounding mountains. Enjoy true silence, clean air and starry nights to recharge from your busy daily life. Discover the walking trails around the property and the panoramic meditation spots uphill.
Things to know
Practical info
- Check-in Saturday from 15:00
- Check-out Saturday before 10:00
- No alcohol
- (Electricial) smoking only in designated area
- Minimum age 18
- Additional massages available
Conditions
More information about the program and conditions: https://wildtantra.com/events/raja-lovers-retreat-8-day-2/
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